I can’t believe that in my no-sex writing challenge madness, I forgot that October is National Kink Month. This is usually the month I research a new kink to introduce in my next story. 

It’s impressive how I immersed myself in this no-sex writing challenge. Now, I have the bones of a good paranormal fantasy with some romantic elements down, and I can’t wait to finish it so I can start the edit and see what the polished end results will be. 

But to think that almost the entire month has gone by and I have not dipped my toe in my kinky writing is frightening, and this month of all months. Oh, my friend was devious indeed in making me accept this challenge. Kudos to her. 

Nonetheless, I must take a minute or three to acknowledge October National Kink Month. From your search engine, if you do a word search for: kink, you’ll get so many results, the top ones being the most common kinks: 

Voyeurism
Cuckholding
Temperature play
BDSM
Humiliation
Role-Play
Group Sex
Age Play
Rope Play
Exhibitionism
Impact Play
Orgasm Control
CBT
Praise

You wouldn’t think such a mundane household item, like a clothespin, would be a kink. Nipple and genital clamps, sure, a clothespin, you ask? I assure you the sight of the little wooden beauty gets some kinky motor revving like no other. They will imagine the pin closing over the tip of their tongues, nipples, belly buttons, clitoris, ballsack, or cock slit. A little something to think about next time you bring out the clothes to hang on the line.

At the end of the day, there’s no right or wrong in the world of kink; it’s to each their own, so go out and explore what gets your blood sizzling.
Remember, have fun, and stay safe.