When I think about it, I would say to be myself and not care what people think.

For years, I feared what others thought of me, whether I succeeded or not in their eyes, or whether I measured up. It’s all silly because the most important thing is that I measure up to my own expectations, not everyone else’s. It took me a long time to realize this. I think my life would have been much smoother if I had come to this realization in my thirties and early forties, when my jobs took over my life. However, better late than never.

Being on medical leave for so long now and looking for the positive side of things, I’ve reconnected with a side of myself I’d put aside because of the crazy work hours that didn’t leave any time for my true passions: knitting, crocheting, and writing. Having the creative flow moving again feels wonderful.

So I’d also say not to lose sight of what’s important to you.